Why traditional 'Speak to Sell' is Dying

Recently I posted an article that really garnered some attention. It was called “Is Speak to Sell Ruining Presentations” and it talked about how ‘over’ the sales pitch the author was. I agree 100%, and I have been shouting it from the rooftops for months.

Stop Selling and Start SERVING

I have been to too many “speak to sell” conferences and seminars where it seems the entire purpose is to break you down through 12 hour days and to make you feel horrible about yourself and your business – then we hear the presenter offer themselves as the ONLY thing that can save you.

Or, the other approach, aim the ‘content fire hose’ at you and overwhelm you with all that is necessary to succeed so you just have to hire that ‘guru’ to help you. And I have seen it work.  It does – I admit it. In a room with over 1,000 people in it, I watched about 10% of the room flock to the back table like little lemmings, credit card in hand. I have also been one of those lemmings…

They bought the Kool-Aid.  But then what?

What we do not see is the buyer’s remorse after the glow has worn off. We do not see the looks on their family’s faces when the participant announces that they have just invested all the money they had saved for vacation. We do not see that the promised results are NOT typical and that selling formulas do not work the same for every personality. We just do not see the long-term damage the brand will ultimately endure.

Before you pounce on that, understand that I am all for investing in your business. I am all for taking risks and growing. I do it all the time. But as consumers, we are OVER the high-pressure sales pitch.

We see beyond the “Great and Powerful Oz” to the man behind the curtain. The flash and dash aren’t enough anymore. We want real, real results, and real relationships. Show us YOU. Share with us relevant, useful content that we can implement immediately ON OUR OWN. Don’t give me the hammer to ‘build my deck for free’, but make me pay an arm and a leg for the nails.  It is slimy.

For instance, on my website, I give away one of my favorite tools for free. “How to write the  Ultimate Speaker One Worksheet”. This is a culmination of years of writing One Sheets, and I believe it really gives people all the tools they need.

There are plenty of Word-based templates out there if they need free and want to design it themselves, and/or they can take the content to their current designer to have something made. They do not have to buy anything from me to have received value. THAT is a free offer. Now, of course, they can contact Pibworth for editing, design, or any number of additional services, but they do not have to. I have served them and given them access to some of my best stuff for free.

That is how our presentations should feel to participants. We should leave them wanting to know more of us, excited about how much we gave – how well we served.

Then, what should you do?

I am not saying do not make an offer. Engaged audience members want us to show them ways to keep in touch, and yes – to work with us;  but if you have not over delivered on your promises in a way that made them fall in love, you have not earned the right to ask. You absolutely must earn the right to make an offer, otherwise, it will feel like a sales pitch – and it won’t win you any new members of your tribe.

Tribe members stick with you. They are loyal and they turn into raving fans that refer you like crazy. They buy the ‘big’ programs, and not just once, because they become repeat purchasers that keep coming back, and they bring friends. These customers are the long-term ‘meat and potatoes’ to your business. Just like anything worthwhile, they take time to cultivate. They take attention and care and they are worth every moment.

Take a look at your presentation from a consumer’s standpoint and ask yourself – how can I stop Selling and start Serving? You will be happy that you did!

 stop selling

Posted in

About Lauren Pibworth

Lauren Pibworth is an internet marketing strategist specializing in growing the business of professional speakers. Lauren and her team of graphic designers, web developers and online product and course development and launch specialists work with speakers who want to diversify their revenue streams and move 'beyond the keynote' through smarter marketing solutions, delivered with care.

Lauren (an amateur sommelier) and her husband enjoy fine Ontario wines, great food and travel to exotic, warm destinations where they spend the majority of their time underwater - scuba diving.

You may also like:

Sorry, we couldn't find any posts. Please try a different search.


Lead Generation is Critical

You’ve got the sales and you’ve got the marketing that’s bringing more visitors to your site everyday… but are you really taking advantage of all the juicy potential those visitors are bringing each time they find you?

Which Are You?

Take the next steps to building your speaking business by choosing which of the speaker types below fits you!